Friday Shabbat Services weekly at 7:30 PM

Wednesday Mah-jongg continues 12:30 – 4 PM

Sunday, March 14th Breakfast Club  10 AM at Scojo’s;  Contact Judy Smith

Family Shabbat Services: Friday, March 19th  7:30 PM

Tuesday, March 30th  Community Seder  4:30 PM  Reservations Required

  • Contact Vivian Fitts for more information

  • Adults-$22, kids 6-11 -$11; under 6 free

Sunday, April 11th  Breakfast Club  10 AM Uncle Will’s  Contact Judy Smith

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Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy.”
 
Friday evening, March 12, 2010

Candle Lighting: 5:42 PM (So. Ocean County)

 Please join us for services.

Friday March 12, 2010

26 Adar 5770

at 7:30 PM

 

Shabbat HaChodesh

The last of the Four Parshiyot is Ha-Chodesh, Exodus 12:1-20. With one simple line, it establishes the Hebrew calendar; “This month shall be for you the beginning of the months, it shall be for you the first of the months of the year.” (Ex. 12:2). This portion is read on Rosh Choesh Nissan or on the last Shabbat before Rosh Chodesh Nissan.Now, you may be wondering: why are we reading about the first month of the year in the spring? Isn’t Jewish New Year in the fall? On the Hebrew calendar, months are counted from Nissan in the spring, but year numbers change in Tishri (the seventh month) in the fall. The month that is the beginning of months referred to above is Nissan, and this is quite clear from the passage in Exodus, which goes on to talk about preparations for Passover which begins on Nissan 15. The corresponding Haftorah portion is Ezekiel 45:16-46:18, which also talks about the first months and the offerings at that time.
 
THIS WEEK’S YAHRZEITS

*Josephine Tucker

*Marjorie Ann Fisher

Abe Rosenbaum

Solomen Chalek

*Minnie Britz

Sidney Kronenberg

Sylvia Glasser

Felix Horowitz

Morris Herman

*Daniel Lang

Jacob Liebenberg

Isadore Opatosky

Joseph Schlanger

*Marvin Weinberger

*Irving List

*Michael Beck

*Yahrzeit plaque at the JCC of LBI. Lights will be lit for the entire week.

These names will be read at Services Friday evening, March 12, 2010 

TORAH COMMENTARY

Torah Portion: Vayakhel-Pedudei: Exodus 35:1 – 40:38 (special maftir Exodus 12:1 – 2)

 Haftorah: IKings 7:51 – 8:21

A Taste of Torah
 

 A Commentary by Rabbi Matthew Berkowitz, director of Israel Programs, JTS.

This week’s commentary was written by Dr. Barry W. Holtz, dean of the William Davidson Graduate School of Jewish Education and Theodore and Florence Baumritter Professor of Jewish Education, JTS.
 
 This week’s double parashah brings the Bible’s second book to a dramatic close. Think how far this people has come in these forty chapters: from an oppressed minority enslaved to a capricious and dangerous Pharaoh, they have become the free followers of the Almighty One, and the recipients of God’s greatest gift, the Torah.

But it has not been an easy road. They suffered anguish as slaves and doubts and backsliding as free people. Indeed, in last week’s Torah reading, they came close to destroying the entire covenant by giving in to their weaknesses and worshipping the Golden Calf. Only Moses’s intercession saved them.

Nonetheless, they have endured, and in this week’s reading, they see the fruits of their labors. By finishing the construction of the Mishkan, the portable Tabernacle that will accompany them in all their travels, they have acquired something beyond a symbol. The Tabernacle is God’s dwelling place—the palpable presence of the Lord, in cloud and in fire, now lives with them. What could be a greater blessing?

These parashiyot embody a structure that is well suited to the highly detailed and delineated building plan of the Tabernacle that we have before us. What’s remarkable is the blending of democracy and hierarchy, chaos and order, that comes together so well in the readings. Essentially, we see a kind of movement that begins with the people themselves and their reaction to the command that they should bring “gifts to the Lord, everyone whose heart so moves him shall bring them (Exod. 35:5).” The Torah emphasizes the extraordinary outpouring of generosity that greets this command. It is not a select few that contribute; rather, the “whole community” (35:20) is so moved. In fact, it’s interesting to note that the text makes a special point of showing that gender distinctions are irrelevant here—both men and women, equally, share in this outpouring (35:22–29). Indeed, we might say that what we witness here is the most successful “campaign” in the history of Jewish philanthropy. For when did it ever happen again that the leaders of the community complained that the people were giving too much (36:6)?

The publication and distribution of the JTS Commentary are made possible by a generous grant from Rita Dee and Harold
(z”l) Hassenfeld

 

CONGREGATION NEWS

Mazel Tov to

Tanya & Fred Urbaczek

on the Bar Mitzvah

of their son, Jordon,

this Shabbat at the Holiday Inn in Manahawkin.

 

REVISED 3/10/10 RGV

 ”Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy.”
 
Friday evening,
March 5,2010
Candle Lighting: 5:34 PM
(So. Ocean County)
 
 
Please join us for services. 

Friday
March 5, 2010
19 Adar 5770
 at 7:30 PM
 
 Shabbat Parah
   
Shabbat Parah occurs on the Shabbat following Purim, and marks the beginning of formal preparations for Pesach.
 
 
Torah Portion:
Ki Tisa: Exodus 30:11- 34:35 (special maftir Numbers 19:1 -22)
 
Haftorah:
1Kings 18:1 – 18:39

THIS WEEK’S YARZEITS

Milton Smith
Hellen Applebaum
Stanley Karp
Louis Cohen
*Nathan Levison 
*Joseph Friedman
Marian Diamond
Abraham Pervin
Paul Watling
Betty Schleifer
*Lillian Salander 
Samuel Kolb
Albert Kessler
Benjamin Katz
Meir Cohen
Eleanor Wichman Satir

*Yahrzeit plaque at the JCC of LBI. Lights will be lit for the entire week.

These names will be read at services Friday, March 5, 2010

IT TAKES A VILLAGE…

From our Religious School Principal, Michelle Goldman..
 
Purim was so much fun this year!
 
We began our festivities on Saturday Night.  The Service started with Havdallah led by Mrs. B.  Then we had a great time reading the Megillah.  A special thanks to Karen Schwing and Mrs. B for their help in leading the service.  It was great to see so many faces there on Saturday!  The costumes were fun to look at.
 
Saturday Night the kids from the Hebrew 3 class had a sleepover.  Highlights included pizza, hot chocolate, baking kugel and watching Forest Gump.
 
At our Sunday morning classes, a Pu rim Shpiel – Star of David Wars: The Purim Menace – was performed by the Hebrew 3 class.  A big Thank You to Renee Dean for all of the hard work that went into putting the play together. 
 
Finally, the kids enjoyed some fun and games at the carnival.  They noshed on Hamantashen and the kugel that was made at the sleepover.  A big thanks to Colette Bach, Howard Golden, Andy Goldman, Mitch and Melanie Powitz, Karen Schwing and Stuart Doctor for all of their hard work.  They all helped set up and clean up.   

revised 3/2/10 rgv

Almost every successful fundraising endeavor has consisted of a small group of its more affluent and generous donors contributing substantial gifts.  It also has a large number, the majority, making what for them are generous pledges but are of modest dollar amounts.  However, a fund drive won’t be successful unless it also has a sizeable amount of donors making pledges and gifts of significant dollar amounts.

A ratio of 80/20 has been proven over and over again to be a factor in most activities.  It says that about 80% of the funds will come from about 20% of the participants.  Or that 20% of its members provide 80% of the volunteer hours of an organization.

Here is what this means for the JCC of LBI’s building fund capital campaign.  To get these results, I have used a membership base of 260 family units and a fundraising goal of $1.5 million.  For us it means that six to ten families will hopefully commit amounts between $50,000 and $250,000.  It means that 100 or so families must contribute between $500 and $5,000.  But, ESSENTIAL FOR OUR CAMPAIGN’S SUCCESS, it means that 35 to 50 families must contribute $15,000 to $25,000

Obviously these grouping estimates are not rigid.  Some families that might be considering a gift in the neighborhood of $5,000 will hopefully step up and pledge 8 or 10 thousand dollars.  And some monies will be raised by people who can only donate a few hundred dollars. Also, we still hope that some of the money for this project will come from grants and other sources outside our membership, but we can’t count on this.

The JCC membership consists of many retired or still working accountants, doctors, educators, engineers, lawyers, other professionals, and successful business persons.  I am sure that most of us, male and female, have been successful financially.  Many of us have homes valued at $ I million or more, and an even larger number live in homes valued between $300,000 and $500,000.   And how many of us over the age of 70 have really needed the mandatory distributions from our IRAs or 401Ks to live on?  If we reach down, extend ourselves a little, and give generously, I believe the goal of $1.5 million can be attained.  But it has to be new money.  It can’t be donations, High Holiday Appeal pledges, tributes, or other monies that you normally give to the JCC.  Those dollars are needed as they are– to operate our congregation.

We will commit the necessary funds for soil testing, test borings, civil engineering, and architectural drawings of a plot plan and elevations to get the necessary approvals from land use, zoning and other township or county boards.  But, as president, I cannot recommend to our Board of Trustees that we commit the substantial money necessary to have full architect’s plans including all the necessary structural, mechanical, electrical, plumbing, kitchen design, , etc. plans for this complete project until it looks like we have a chance to reach our goal.  And we seem to be a long way from that.

Most of us have taken a financial hit in the last part of 2008, and for many this hit was huge.  But in times of adversity we Americans and we Jews pick ourselves up and move forward. And so we must for our Rebuild Project.  We must look at the big picture, the long range picture.  Our project, a new JCC home, is for us and for future generations.  It is for something that is necessary and that will make us all proud.  Your commitment is a gift to you and to future generations.

If you are like me, you saw a significant improvement in the value of your portfolio when you received your 2009 year-end statements. True, the value may still not be where it was in mid-2008, but the 12/31/09 is probably considerably better than 12/31/2008.  On average, for every $100,000 value, you may have seen a $10,000 or more increase. Hopefully you are now in a better position to make an initial pledge or increase a previous one.

Our Bible asks us to tithe. Jews don’t, but many Christians do.  There are many churches, mostly but not all fundamentalist, that require members to tithe.  Tithe not only 10% of their income, but also 10% of their time and talent.    And this seems to be a growing percentage of the population.   Think of all the Mega-churches you have seen or read about

Have you done all you can in making your Rebuild Campaign pledge? Or as our Rabbi said on Rosh Hashona   “All you can and a little bit more”    Estimate your total income over the next 3 years.  This is from wages, pensions, dividends, interest, withdrawals from IRAs, and disbursements from annuities, etc.   And don’t calculate 10% of that 3 year total; just do 5%, or even 3%.   For most of you, I’ll bet that number is a lot more than what you have pledged or plan to pledge to the Rebuild Campaign.   But without these substantial pledges, the rebuild project that you have approved will not come to fruition. Even one dollar a day over 3 years is a pledge of $1100.

I am not asking you to make a pledge that you think I might want you to make.  I am asking you to make your initial pledge or increase your previous one to an amount that you and your family will be proud of.  Please don’t wait until later to do so.  DO IT NOW. Call Rose Valentine and take care of it right away.  Our building needs to be replaced, and we can’t start the process until sufficient funds have been pledged.  NOW IS THE TIME TO MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Rose Valentine has taken on the tremendous responsibility of chairing our Capital Campaign.   Please call her at (609) 361-0892 to discuss your pledge.          SHALOM,  Don Pripstein

The Board, at its February 9th meeting, approved a modified building design, recommended by the Rebuild Committee, which serves to substantially reduce the building cost while maintaining the same general appearance, spirituality, functionality, and footprint as the earlier design.

Ed Dreyfus, Chair of the Rebuild Committee, reported that the main differences include reducing the 14,000 sq ft building to about 10,000 sq ft by eliminating the second floor class rooms, bathroom, and balcony. Instead, class rooms are now designed into the first level front section leaving generous sizing for the board room/library and office as well as the men’s and women’s bathrooms. In response to Board member questions about future expansion of the building, Ed pointed out that this new design enables, in some future project, the easy addition of two rooms (one perhaps a chapel) north of the sanctuary and two additional rooms west of the kitchen.

This new design preserves the social hall size capable of seating 200 for dinner and dancing, catered receptions, banquets, concerts, and other forms of activities and functions, while the sanctuary, when closed, can still seat over 100 persons, and , when open to the social hall, can seat 400-500 for the High Holidays.

Ed also reported that it is yet possible to move the project along to meet a 2010 construction schedule and a (spring) 2011 occupancy date, such that JCC membership can enjoy the new building and plan for Bar/Bat mitzvahs, weddings, High Holidays, and other events in our own building. However, this ambitious schedule greatly depends upon immediate financial dedication and participation from JCC members. Confident JCC members shall immediately and financially support this project, the Rebuild Committee looks forward to the construction phase of erecting a building of which we can all be proud.

Ed Dreyfus, Chair Rebuild Committee

Click below to view and print JCC Modified Building Design exterior image

JCC modified design building exterior

Click below to view and print JCC Modified Building Design interior layout

JCC modified design building interior layout

Update 2/9/10 kps

Click on the link below to view/print the March/April 2010 JCC Bulletin as a  PDF file.

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2010 Bulletin March – April 1 column for website

Updated 2/10/10 kps

Join the JCC of LBI Family

For our annual Community Seder

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Reservations Required;

Adults:  $22.00

Children 6-11 $11.00, children under 6 free

Contact the JCC Office to reserve your space  609-492-4090 or jccoflbi@gmail.com

Mail your check payable to Sisterhood-JCC of LBI

c/o JCC of LBI

PO Box 2205

Long Beach Township, NJ  08008

updated 2/7/10 kps

We were all touched and dismayed by the horrific TV footage of yesterday’s 7.0 magnitude earth quake in Haiti. At this time, there are a number of Israeli citizens and local Jews who are unaccounted for, we join with others in playing for their safety.As Jews and community leadership who ascribe to the Jewish principle of Tikun Olam, repearing a broken world, we instinctively seek to assist. A number of Jewish organizations have sprung into action providing relief and emergency medical help on behalf of the Jewish people. The state of Israel has a Military Civil Defense, Home Front Unit on it’s way with trained personnel, supplies and rescue equipment. If you, or any one else, wishs to help by making a donation there are a number of ways:

 1. You, may send a check to Federation (JFOC 301 Madison Ave.,Lakewood NJ 08701) Please be sure to make your check “Haiti Relief Fund”.  

 2. You can also call in a contribution to be placed on your credit card – just make your intentions clear as to directing

 3. As of this Thursday mid morning the Federation web site

www.jewishoceancounty.org will be set up to accept donations on line earmarked for The Relief Fund. There will be a prominently positioned ‘jump button’ on the home page.

4. You can also donate directly to Federation’s constituent beneficiary, The American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee, (JDC), who’s regional representatives are on the ground, providing assistance in the name of the American Jewish Community. You can go on line (see below).

Spread the word to your constituency and organization!

 Thank you, Danny

(Danny Goldberg, Executive Director)

Jewish Federation of Ocean County
301 Madison Avenue
Lakewood, NJ 08701
732.363.0530
Fax: 732.363.2097

www.JDC.org or mail a check: P.O. Box 530, 132 East 43rd Street, New York, NY 10017 Attn: Haiti Crisis.

Updated 1/31/10 kps

Updated 02/06/10 ls

Join our annual Art Festival on Sunday, August 22, 2010.   Contact Jeff or Nita Shapiro to volunteer to help out.

Updated 12/15/09   JAS

CAPITAL CAMPAIGN UPDATE

“Building the Future”

 

HISTORY

The JCC Board, in August, 2008, recognized that the present sanctuary building was nearly 50 years old and had serious problems, such as lack of sufficient capacity for High Holidays, social, and reception programs; a deteriorating Holy Ark; a deteriorating trailer for the Religious School; inadequate bathrooms and office space. In response to these growing concerns, the Board launched the JCC Rebuild project for developing and building a new sanctuary building designed to reflect our proud, growing, and active membership of 285 families.

PROGRESS

Many members and friends have already supported the project. Their generous donations, along with the funds realized from the condo unit sale and 50/50 raffle proceeds, have raised $817,500 toward the project. We are very proud of the money we have realized so far but we need your help to have the funds necessary to start construction the Fall of 2010.

APPEAL

Will you join us in building a brand new synagogue? When will you have another opportunity to support a new synagogue construction project? And this is the perfect time to step forward – at the end of the tax year, when many members plan December contributions. For those of you who have made your 2009 Building the Future donation, please consider adding to that gift and, for those who have not, please donate or pledge to support the rebuild.

Feel free to call me with any questions 973-632-0913

Rose Valentine, Capital Campaign Chair

 

rjv 12/3/09

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The Bulletin is now available paperless. If you would like to receive the electronic version instead of the snail-mail version, please contact: Bonnie Clark in the JCC office: 609-492-4040 or jccoflbi@gmail.com with the subject bulletin.